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Great News....

Great news as reported by the Associated Press today:

SAN FRANCISCO - California's Supreme Court declared gay couples in the nation's biggest state can marry — a monumental but perhaps short-lived victory for the gay rights movement Thursday that was greeted with tears, hugs, kisses and at least one instant proposal of matrimony.

                        

Same-sex couples could tie the knot in as little as a month. But the window could close soon after — religious and social conservatives are pressing to put a constitutional amendment on the ballot in November that would undo the Supreme Court ruling and ban gay marriage.

"Essentially, this boils down to love. We love each other. We now have equal rights under the law," declared a jubilant Robin Tyler, a plaintiff in the case along with her partner. She added: "We're going to get married. No Tupperware, please."

A crowd of people raised their fists in triumph inside City Hall, and people wrapped themselves in the rainbow-colored gay-pride flag outside the courthouse. In the Castro, the historic center of the gay community in San Francisco, Tim Oviatt wept as he watched the news on TV.

"I've been waiting for this all my life. This is a life-affirming moment," he said.

By the afternoon, gay and lesbian couples had already started lining up at San Francisco City Hall to make appointments to get marriage licenses. In West Hollywood, supporters were planning to serve "wedding cake" at an evening celebration.

James Dobson, chairman of the conservative Christian group Focus on the Family, called the ruling an "outrage."

"It will be up to the people of California to preserve traditional marriage by passing a constitutional amendment. ... Only then can they protect themselves from this latest example of judicial tyranny," he said in an e-mail statement.

In its 4-3 ruling, the Republican-dominated high court struck down state laws against same-sex marriage and said domestic partnerships that provide many of the rights and benefits of matrimony are not enough.

"In contrast to earlier times, our state now recognizes that an individual's capacity to establish a loving and long-term committed relationship with another person and responsibly to care for and raise children does not depend upon the individual's sexual orientation," Chief Justice Ronald George wrote for the majority in ringing language that delighted gay rights activists.

Massachusetts is the only other state to legalize gay marriage, something it did in 2004. The California ruling is considered monumental by virtue of the state's size — 38 million out of a U.S. population of 302 million — and its historic role in the vanguard of the many social and cultural changes that have swept the country since World War II.

California has an estimated 92,000 same-sex couples.

"It's about human dignity. It's about human rights. It's about time in California," San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom, pumping his fist in the air, told a roaring crowd at City Hall. "As California goes, so goes the rest of the nation. It's inevitable. This door's wide open now. It's going to happen, whether you like it or not."


You can read the rest here...

Sponsor Spotlight: Yndigo Designs

Yndigo Designs earrings are perfect gifts for your bridesmaids and maid of honor.  Yndigo Designs is currently offering a free gift with every purchase, while supplies last from now until May 31st.
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Drumroll Please....

And the winner of the Limited Edition  Yellow Jade Three Plus One Necklace is Kelly...
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Inspiration Board by Me

I thought that I would create my own inspiration board. So here goes...Moodboard
A beautiful backyard soiree inspired by the nuetrals found in nature. Flowers are from the new line of Martha Stewart from 1800 Flowers. Invitations with the fern motif created  by Chewing The Cud. I love love the look and feel of the drink dispensers, I found these via Pottery Barn. Green lanterns from . Dress from Alfred Angelo. Shoes by Pedro Garcia available at Shop Bop. Tablescape image found via Instyle Weddings.

Still looking for the perfect gift?

Here are a few ideas to get you started on the road to that perfect thank you gift for your bridesmaid and maid of honor.Gifts2
1. Bangle Watch by Michael Kors
2. Shawl Collar Robe by Kashwere
3. Monogrammed Canvas Change Holder by Louis Vuitton
4. Black Feather Thank You by Paper Elixir
5. Swirl Cut Lemon Topaz Earrings by Anne Maa

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1. Sister Necklace by Heather Moore Jewelry
2. Dream Eye Pillow by Cicada Studios
3. Runaway Cart by Springcart
4. Scent Sampler by Sephora
5. Personalized Stationery by Le Papier Designs
6. Bohemian Melon Atomizer from Paradise and Co

Accessorize that hair...

If you are anything like me, then you probably love accessories too. I found some great hair accessories for every budget and every bride who is in to hair accessories. I am sure that I fell in love with all of the hair accessories from Head Dress Designs, makers of couture hair accessories.
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A few more beautiful hair accessories.... I am loving the Magnolia hair pin, it definitely is giving me Billie Holiday and a bit of that Old Hollywood Glamour.

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{ clockwise from top right: Creations by Lonnie, Mikiye, Kurrently, Hair Comes The Bride}

Wedding Edition: What's in Louise's Bag...

Today Louise who is a lucky bride to be shared with Tha Hotness what was in her bag... Louis also has a fabulous shop over on Etsy, you can check it out here.

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Name: Louise

What do you do for a living: Full time teacher and part time crafter.
My bag came free with a magazine I'm using it because it is the only one big enough for the volume of stuff I seem to carry around at the moment!
My dodo book of the big day is the most important thing in my life right now, it’s stuffed full of ideas, numbers, swatches etc… I would be lost with out it.
I always carry a number of magazines with me as I frequently use public transport.
I buy a lot of wedding magazines because I’m always on the look out for good, usual ideas to make my wedding unique. I want it to have a real handmade personal feel to it.
I always carry my moleskin with me to jot down good ideas, and sketches.
My purse is a cute sequined frog that I have had for years I love cute fun things; I also carry a pretty decorated mirror that my Auntie bought me for Christmas.
My mobile phone because I’m a real chatter box.
My favorite lipstick a lovely sheer pink colour and a packet of hand wipes.
I seem to find random bits of my handmade jewellery at the bottom of my bag along with many hair bobbles.

Giveaway Time

It's giveaway time again here at Tha Hotness. We are giving away one of our Limited Edition Three plus One Yellow Jade necklace. All you have do to enter is go over to Springcart and leave a comment below telling us what your favorite item is. Winner will be announced on Monday, May 12th, 2008.

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Remember to sign up for our newsletter while you're there so that you can be the first to know about new products, exclusive discounts and exciting giveaways. Use the code: summer15 for 15% off of any purchase today.

Wedding Inspiration Board by Kelly...

Kelly of Two Brides Blog was gracious enough to help us out and share her Inspiration Board.

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I made this set with my own wedding in mind- not the colors but the goal. I'm trying to have a carbon neutral/planet friendly wedding. Since it's at the Audobon society, I already am ahead with my reception being green. Woodend says the following about being green:
Although our efforts on behalf of the environment extend far and wide, we also aim to ensure our ecological values are reflected in how we manage our sanctuaries. Measures taken at Woodend include:

— New efficient heating and cooling systems
— Incandescent bulbs replaced with fluorescent where possible
— Installation of lighting timer devices
— Installation of efficient low-flow toilets and faucets
— Environmentally sensitive cleaning supplies
— All paper, bottles, cans, glass recycled
— Removal of invasive plants, restoration of pond, self-mulching of lawn and new plantings are indigenous of the area
Audubon Naturalist News is printed on 30% post-consumer waste paper

That's a lot of green goodness! But what am I going to contribute to this plan? Sigg water bottles are featured in my inspiration image for a good reason. I am so sick of seeing every eeding with personalized water bottles. Hello? Think of all that waste. Combine your water bottles with a thank you gift- a sigg water bottle. I have one and love it. Also, herbs for centerpieces rock. They do not die the next day like your flowers will and they make wonderful gifts/reminders of your wedding day. Also encouraging your guests to take public transport of carpool for your wedding is really important- using tags like in my inspiration image to tie on the rearview mirrors of the cars that do come reminds them of all the good they did by carpooling!

Just a little something...

To hold all of your little things, such as your lipstick, etc during your special day.  Here are just a few of the great handbags that I found...
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P.S....

Springcart is sponsoring a contest on the Wedding Bee later on today. We are looking for your help. We are looking for mood boards from all of you brides to be to share with all of our readers. Drop us email if you have one you would like to share at: info@springcartdesigns.com

Now what....

So you've gotten engaged and want to ask your sister and BFF to be bridesmaids in your wedding and your not quite sure where to start. Here are just a few cute ideas that I found to help you out. I thought the cookie invitation, also available in 12 different colors ways over at Gracious Bridal would be a perfect way of asking. How cute is the, "Will you be my bridesmaid card?" available here at Shop By Invitation.
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Or how about a little humor with this card from Lola Says. Who also happens to have great humorous cards for all of lifes not so humorous events. Favor Ideas also has these great gourmet chocolate bridesmaid.

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Maybe your future bridesmaid is one that can appreciate a little bit of bling, well this Rhinestone Tank Gift set available at My Wedding Market and already perfectly packaged for gift giving. And last but not least this beautiful Stand  by Me card from Olio Style available here. Brides1

Let the festivities begin..

For the next two weeks we will celebrate weddings and marriage here on Tha Hotness.  We well be celebrating unions of all forms whether it be gay, straight, transgender, etc. We at Tha Hotness believe in the unions and in marriage based on love not gender.

Over the next few weeks we plan on giving you ideas, inspiration and information for your celebration of love.  Be sure to tune in each day for new post and for a few giveaways that we will be having here. So with that being said let the festivities begin.

Just a few things I thought you might like...

Hey Folks...
It's me, My has asked me to blog today. So, as I was surfing, looking for "hotness", I put together a few things I thought you might like.

Everytime we go shopping, My loves to look at bags. The bigger the better, and it's definitely a plus if it has a woven handle. No bag is ever perfect (which I think is her excuse to stay on the hunt!), and she loves them in all colors and fabrics. So, as I'm browsing this morning, I came across Elemental Threads where you can design your own bag. Imagine the fun you can have!

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Here's one I put together for my baby...

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I also stopped by Gucci's site to drool over these new kicks...The thing about Gucci is, I would probably never drop over $500 on a pair of shoes, but if I could, these are the ones I would cop. Here's to living out Kanye dreams...

For me...
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For My...
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For the 80's Babies...Definitely a killer throwback combo.


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That's all I have for now...back soon!

~Her

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